Since We Last Spoke…

Saw a really good show at UCB with Karrin. Unfortunately, one of the stars, Jeff Garlin, was super out of it (drunk? high?). Went to the beach with Jen. Went to Milk with my sister and had some really yummy desserts.

Spent a long weekend in San Diego where I baked a gazillion Passover desserts and spent time with family and friends and went to seders. Had brunch with Julie (who is pregnant with baby number three, congratulations!) at the Shack, where we would go when we’d ditch class in high school. After Passover, went to Mozza with three fabulous women. And attended a good-bye party for a friend who is moving up north.

Speaking of friends, I learned that reading a friend’s friend’s blog may lead to reading something I didn’t really care to know. And also, that if someone is a true friend, they will help, not hurt, you. And they’d eventually get around to responding to an IM.

Got my candy swap package! Speaking of candy, anyone know where you can buy Pineapple Lumps in the U.S.? Had a marshmallow recipe failure. Had much more success with flourless chocolate-walnut cookies and chocolate chip sour cream pound cake.

Got a couple of texts and phone calls from the Brit all promising “I’ll call you” and/or “we’ll get together soon” just before he got hit by The Bus. Learned I am capable of not obsessing and not driving myself crazy with thoughts of “will he call?” and more importantly, that if he doesn’t call, amazingly, the world won’t end. More recently, went on a few dates, including a second one at the Getty (where the weather was gorgeous and the date was eh). Also, had a fun first date with yet another unemployed writer.

Received a letter from XM Radio saying if I sign up for automatic debit (for an annual subscription, weird, yes I know) I would get a $12.95 credit to my account. So, my $77 a year subscription just went down to $64.05. Not bad, huh?

Got back into exercising regularly and eating well and, with a little help from Passover, lost a few pounds.

Had a really bad four days where I tried to limit my crying to while in the shower only. Entertained the idea of going to pastry school. Thought about moving to San Diego once things filter out at work; more on that later. Speaking of work, remember that crazy deadline I had a couple of months ago? Currently going through it again, this time for first quarter 2008; not fun.

Realized that some of my blog readers are fabulous people who actually care about me; learned some of my blog readers think I am selfish for not blogging. And also, there is a plugin that will automatically upgrade Wordpress and it is awesome. And as a bonus, did you know you can now post videos to Flickr?
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Yes, I know, random stuff, totally out of order, and not very detailed. And of course, it’s only some of what I’ve been up to. The last month has provided a lot of introspection as well as re-evaluation of a friendship. And blog-wise, I was surprised to find that I didn’t miss blogging as much as I thought I would. I’m not sure if that means I needed a break, or perhaps this blog has lived its life. I guess we’ll see.

16 Comments »

AM

May 4th, 2008 | 4:29 pm

Glad you’re back. I enjoy your blog and hope all is well.

Michelle

May 4th, 2008 | 4:46 pm

Happy to hear you had time to do things, think & perhaps plan to make some changes. Whatever path you choose, I wish you much luck and success. And if you do decide it’s time to put this blog to rest, then I guess we’ll just have to accept it.

You can always re-invent yourself my putting out a whole new blog…another blogger whose* blog I read recently did that…

*correct use of “whose”?

Erin

May 4th, 2008 | 4:47 pm

Personally, I miss you when you don’t post, but totally understand the desire to back off. I’ve gone through blog crises periodically, but I always end up going back.

I hope you’re doing well!

Lori

May 4th, 2008 | 4:48 pm

Who thinks you’re selfish for not blogging? I don’t really understand that?

I hear you on the four days in the shower. I hope you are feeling better.

Rachel Gold

May 4th, 2008 | 6:18 pm

I have to tell you, I have never tasted your baking, but I just KNOW it is good. You clearly have a passion for it and I could totally see you in pastry school or in some kind of business that has to do with baking. Writing and baking perhaps. I don’t know, but good things. I see good things…

Welcome back. For now anyway. You may be crying in the shower here and there, but it sounds like you are having some fun too.

Jenifer

May 4th, 2008 | 10:08 pm

I missed you but I respect your need to live your life however you want to, albeit taking time off from blogging temporarily or permanently.

I was thinking of you today as we introduced someone else to Le Peep and their delight in the food. Fond memories, Hil.

Stacy

May 4th, 2008 | 10:54 pm

So glad to see you’re back! I’m sorry to hear you had a tough few days (completely understand that), but hope things are looking up. I know a lot of us enjoy reading your blog and hearing about what’s going on in your life (especially since so many of us can relate to a lot of it), but also understand your desire to live your life and not necessarily be tied to the blog. Selfishly I hope you continue to blog, even if infrequently!

Dawn

May 5th, 2008 | 3:54 am

Pastry school???? What a fabulous idea!!!!!

Ron

May 5th, 2008 | 5:49 am

I’m glad you are back. Sorry about the Brit and all the other guys who do not follow through. Really, if I knew a GOOD GUY for you, I would send him your way.

Anyway, I wanted to let you know that I made the chocolate red velvet cake balls for an activity at my son’s school (”International Night”). I will have to improve my “technique” of making them, but they still came out pretty well. The principal and assistant principal were both very enthusiastic about the dessert, and my son was so proud of the way he helped Daddy. All the ingredients are available at Wegmans. I wonder if the fact that there was a lot of Indian and Korean food around helped (since the school is half Asian).

I was asked what country this dessert represented, so I thought of you and said “California.” The organizers may have put “United States” anyway.

Yes, Michelle, that was a correct use of “whose.”

Amy

May 5th, 2008 | 6:30 am

Sorry to hear the Brit didnt call–his loss, and what a jerk! Also sorry to hear about the friendship ending. What happened?

And I think pastry school sounds like a fab idea!

Bethany

May 5th, 2008 | 8:33 am

Yay you are back! Boys suck, somehow over your spring break it didn’t change.

xoxox

Marjie

May 5th, 2008 | 9:29 am

Pastry school sounds great! Welcome back!! I really missed reading your blog!

Mike

May 6th, 2008 | 11:58 am

Welcome back!

Sorry things didn’t work out with the Brit, but as I’m sure you’ve learned, when a guy is interested, he makes plans, even if he’s super busy or sick or whatever the case may be. If he’s not interested, he makes excuses.

And thanks for the XM tip.

Stacy

May 6th, 2008 | 8:46 pm

I think pastry school is a wonderfl idea, you seem to have quite a talent and enthusiasm for baking, so why not?

Sorry to hear about the re-evaluating friendship thing. I think friendships, like all relationships, serve a purpose and maybe they aren’t always forever, but you learn something from them along the way.

Good luck!

ptwelve

May 7th, 2008 | 3:33 pm

Check out electroluxappliances.com. There is a cupcake commercial! I think that’s you in it! Clearly, you are the wave of the future because Cupcakes Rule.

TinyE

May 8th, 2008 | 4:56 am

Missed your blog - glad you’re back.

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