Jdate Email Exchange of the Week
Last week, a Jdate profile caught my eye. The profile had a somewhat free-flowing writing style, and the guy listed a bunch of words that he used to describe himself. One of those words was “freak.” I know, I should have taken that as a hint. Instead, I emailed him and acknowledged that while there are a lot of freaks on Jdate, there are not a lot of self-proclaimed freaks on Jdate. I inquired as to what made him a freak.
And I um, got my answer: What makes me a self proclaimed freak? LOL…good question. To keep the email sweet and g-rated, lets just say I’m open minded sexually when it comes to being with my girl, and I like that sort of thing, even if my heart and mind are monogamous.
Curious, bored, and slightly unsure of what he meant, I asked him: Are you a) sexually open with your partner and only your partner or b) sexually open with multiple people but your “heart and mind are monogamous” as you said?
His response: c) all of the above…but have only ever brought “other” people into our relationship for a night, and then move on…more like a sex toy type thing…not swingers, just open.
I wouldn’t call him a freak–to each his own. But he’s definitely not for me.
